It has taken me about a week to compose my thoughts about our last doctors appointment, but I think I have everything in perspective now. Our last doctor's appointment was on May 19th, 2011. We had another ultrasound and found that we are having another sweet little boy. Grant Alonzo Plummer will be joining us some time this summer, hopefully he will wait until August, but we will welcome him whenever he decides to come. That's the wonderful news (Alonzo is a family name on my dad's side that has been passed down for four now five generations, my Dad is so proud he is about ready to pop).
The not so wonderful news, but not bad news is that Grant has IUGR just like our Noah. He was measuring about a week and a half behind and was approximately one pound and 11 ounces. He looks perfect besides the fact that he is small. We have good news and not so great news about how he is doing. The good news is he is moving around a lot which Noah never really did. Grant is also measuring proportionally small, Noah never grew proportionally. The not so great news is Grant is measuring small earlier than Noah did and the fact that I am already having contractions. So we have an appointment with a neonatal doctor for a special ultrasound and consultation on June 8. Dr. Webb told me to take it easy and when I start to have contractions to stop and rest.
I was kind of resting, but still lifting Noah and doing a lot. I started having some pretty strong contractions so I called the Dr. Webb yesterday and he had me come in and have a non stress test (oxymoron it's completely stressful). He said the baby look happy and the contractions had stopped, but I really needed to take it easy and try to relax.
So before I am put on full bed rest or even worse, I am finally taking the advice of the doctor and taking it easy. I am on modified bed rest, resting when I feel tired and not lifting the 30 pound toddler. I have not lifted Noah since yesterday which has helped with the contractions. I am trying to take it easy which is kind of hard with a busy little almost three year old. I have babysitters and help lined up for the next two weeks and I am just trying to take it easy. My mom put it all in perspective for me saying it's easier to take it easy let some things go then have a premature baby.
So I am trying, maybe this is God's way of making me slow down and learn to accept that he is in charge and not me. I am going to work on managing my fear about the situation, try to be calm and take it one day at a time. I know I have given the link to my blog to several people who have asked about how the baby is doing. I will post updates after doctors appointments and as things change so everyone can keep updated on how we are doing. I keep telling myself that Noah had the same condition and now he is perfect and keeps me running. I guess Dynamite comes in small packages. Here are some pictures of our little movie star, we are going to have a whole album of pictures before he is even born.
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May 19, 2011: Grant 26 weeks. |
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May 19, 2011: Grant smiling for us at 26 weeks. |